12 Things She Wishes You Understood
Apr28

12 Things She Wishes You Understood

1.She's a lover, but she'll fight for you. 2.She's not jealous, she just doesn't want to lose you. 3.She's not just emotional, she's passionate. 4.She's not stupid, she just trusted you. 5.She's not needy, but she deserves your attention. 6.She's not insecure, but she wants you to find her attractive. 7.She's not rushing things, she just doesn't have time for games. 8.She's not judgmental, she just realizes your potential. 9.She doesn't have trust issues, but she hates being lied to. 10.She loves the thought of being all yours, but not if you flirt with everyone else. 11.She's not "too sensitive", but she does have feelings. 12.She knows she's complicated, but she still wishes you understood.  -Derrick Jaxn Share this:TweetShare on...

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Woman Throws Baby to Fight
Apr12

Woman Throws Baby to Fight

Skip to 1:40 to see the worst of it Black women, I have a problem with the percentage of you who do things like this daily. If you're AVERAGE you're already getting ready to do one of three things which is: 1. Point out men as to how they contribute to the problem or other races who do it too(deferment) 2. Say it's not your fault, it's society's fault, or 3. Dismiss and bash me for 'hating' black women. At some point, you have to take a look in the mirror and take FULL accountability for YOUR actions. Somebody raised this mother, and this mother is going to raise this little black girl she threw across the bus to be another black woman doing the same shit. STOP having these children if this is what kind of example you're going to be. STOP blaming everyone else for causing a problem that you continue to facilitate and then defer to everything around you. YES you have obstacles, more so than anyone else, but the more you use that defense mechanism as a crutch, the less focus we give to the solution. You can't honestly say you love and adore your children if this is what you're showing them they should grow up to be like. Take your role as a mother seriously. Whatever it is you do, just remember that you're teaching your child to be just like you. I'm not bashing you, I'm being that one real friend in your corner who's tapping you on your shoulder letting you know that you're way out of line. Twerking videos, fighting, cussing everyone out, beating your kids senseless, half naked mirror pics, NOT working while collecting government aid checks. That shit ain't cute. And it needs to stop. I challenge you, for ONCE, to just humble yourself and say, "You know what, we do need to do better. We're not the only problem, but we do more than enough to contribute to it with our actions." Not for me, but for the little girl in the video thrown across the bus. -Derrick Jaxn Share this:TweetShare on...

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