12 Things She Wishes You Understood

1.She's a lover, but she'll fight for you.

2.She's not jealous, she just doesn't want to lose you.

3.She's not just emotional, she's passionate.

4.She's not stupid, she just trusted you.

5.She's not needy, but she deserves your attention.

6.She's not insecure, but she wants you to find her attractive.

7.She's not rushing things, she just doesn't have time for games.

8.She's not judgmental, she just realizes your potential.

9.She doesn't have trust issues, but she hates being lied to.

10.She loves the thought of being all yours, but not if you flirt with everyone else.

11.She's not "too sensitive", but she does have feelings.

12.She knows she's complicated, but she still wishes you understood. 

-Derrick Jaxn

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Derrick Jaxn is a lifestyle blogger, motivational speaker, and author. He consistently delivers raw truth with a passion and can emotionally connect with anyone no matter how alone you thought you were. If you read it, there's a good chance he writes it, but you won't get it like this from anywhere else. Follow him on Twitter & Instagram @DerrickJaxn.

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  1. This hit a small nerver, “10.She loves the thought of being all yours, but not if you flirt with everyone else.”

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    • I personally used to struggle with it, but with maturity comes understanding. A lot of guys just have to mature to understand where you’re coming from

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  2. Very nice, so true

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  3. Wow I love this, it really hit home especially with my current relationship. Wish all men would read this.

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  4. This is good stuff!! Strangely accurate coming from a man but hey *shrugs shoulders* you get props from me lol I wish more men had this perspective…

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  5. You summed up a WHOLE LOT in those 10 simple sentences. Excellent! Wish I could put on a billboard. LOL

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  6. I feel like this most days. Just because I am strong does not mean that I don’t need to hear or feel these things and wish my husband would figure it out. I’m not much for crying or tears but if I am, maybe I’m not being emotional and just need a hug, not someone to walk away because he doesn’t know what to say or do. And please don’t lie to me, especially about little stuff that doesn’t even matter in the big picture, because that makes me wonder if everything is a lie. Well put Mr.Jaxn.

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  7. Number seven is big for me. I am not into games.

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  8. I truly enjoyed reading this…. Very True!!!!! I wish he understood, nevertheless he doesen’t and it’s time for me to walk away!!!!!

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  9. WOW!!! U TOUCH MY HEART LIKE WOW!!1

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  10. Awesome… wish they all understood

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  11. I wonder what a woman would reply: 12 things He Wishes You Understand

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  12. Well put….copying and sending to a man that thinks I’m all these things lol

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  13. Wish all men could understand like you Derrick. Relationships are simple when things are understood clearly… I’m definitely gonna repost. Always a pleasure to read. Keep em coming.
    Stay sweet hun. :-)

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  14. Amazing men and women need to read couples also. I cannot wait to read your novel.

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    • Thank you Theresa, I think you’ll love it when it’s done. Stay tuned 😉

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  15. I really enjoyed your read. It is refreshing to hear those views come from a man. Thanks for sharing.

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  16. Love it! Got me in TEARS! This is EXACTLY what I’ve been trying to say!

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  17. 25611 are the most misunderstood to me….

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  18. Yessir!! Where can I find her??

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  19. Wow i really like it ,u are so intelligent Derrick,well said

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  20. Amen!! Beautifully Spoken!! Thank You:~) God Bless!! Amen:~)

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  21. Can we clone you and get rid of the other impostors??? PLEASE???

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  22. Hit it right on!!

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  23. Hi Derrick,

    I really love this….Thank You

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  24. Great thoughts! Wish I could had read it while there was still time. Nevertheless, it puts things in a much better perspective for me. Thank you Derrick!

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  25. Great list!! I really like #8, as it applies to both men and women. Encouraging someone to strive for something greater can be tricky. Even if the other person wants it, and you keep your message positive and affirming, insecurity can rear its ugly head. But if you really care about someone, you can’t help but want great things for them.

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  26. Love this, so true!!!!

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  27. Truth all day, all dayyyyy!!! Thx 4 sharing

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  28. Derrick-I’m loving this! As a man how did you get to this place? Women are very complicated 😉 beautifully complicated.

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  29. Is there a male version of this anywhere…?

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    • There’s two of them actually. See “Thoughts of a Good Man” and “10 Things He Wishes You Understood”

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      • Fantastic :-) Thanks Derrick!

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  30. You are not real! I just found you today and have been all over your pages i.e. FB, web page, twitter and I can’t get enough of you. If I could bottle you up “for sale” I bet I could get millions, but I wouldn’t sell one drop.

    Loving your work and can’t wait to read more. Keep it up. ~Ursula

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  31. Sooo true,I wish all guys could understand this. Derrick youre simply awesome.

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  32. this is very nice, especially coming from a guys point of view :)

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